How to write an unplugged post and my Top 10 Personal Bloggers

Top 10 personal Bloggers

“Don’t talk about our dirty laundry,” was something my father used to tell me when I was growing up. I learnt to zip up and keep quiet about anything that went on in our family, stoic in my British reserve.

Looking back on the things that went on in our house I’m not sure that was such a good thing, and these days with blogging opening the floodgates for people to air all their fears, troubles and woes to the whole world in cinematographic detail,  I’m not sure that’s such a good thing either.

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However, if there is such a thing as being moderate but open in what we share for the sake of helping others, then I agree that often it’s our own personal stories which do the best as blog posts. Sure you need to entertain or inform your readers as well, but the most successful bloggers do more than that.

They write about their own personal journeys, struggles and achievements and take you along for the ride.

top 10 personal bloggers

Welcome to Bloggie Friday. Today I’d like to introduce you to my top 10 personal bloggers and give some tips about how to create an unplugged story post – which is the type of post these bloggers seem to be able to create with such ease and style.

How to write an unplugged story

You are the main character in your blog. Yes, to a certain point it’s all about YOU, as long as you remember that your audience wants to know ‘what’s in it for them’ too. So you need to be able to spin a good yarn about what’s going on in your life and keep your readers interested. How much you share, is up to you, but it has to be true.

Check out : Styling You

Don’t try to be Shakespeare

Keep it conversational – A blog post isn’t an article for magazine, so don’t try to write as if it were. Write as if your best friend is in the room, be approachable, witty, quick off the mark and compassionate too – but tell it like it is, from the heart, always.

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Preachy Teachy

Don’t be too preachy – It’s really easy to be bossy when we’re writing. After all it’s just us and the computer screen – we can tell it what to do, it’s okay, isn’t it? Actually it’s not, not if you think you’re chatting to your best friend.

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Don’t be a Barbie

Show your flaws – The best blogs are written by people who show their flaws. Your readers will relate to you if they think you have faults just the same as they do, but they’re less likely to want to listen to you and just tune out if you are a Miss Barbie-life-is-perfect-I’m-just-waiting-for-Ken-to-get-home type of person. Don’t be afraid to tell a story where you come off badly, but keep your readers on your side by justifying any mean actions.

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On the couch – not

Blogging isn’t therapy – Don’t use your blog as a therapy session because your readers are not your therapist. Yes write about past events that hurt you or crippled you emotionally, but just make sure that you have some time between you and the event so that you can tell the story in an intriguing and helpful way, and your readers can learn a thing or two about you, and about how to cope in a similar situation themselves.

Check out : Get in the Hot Spot

Make ’em laugh!

Be humorous – if you can – humour is hard to pull off, but if you’ve got it then flaunt it.

Check out : WoogsWorld  and I opened my mouth and it ran away with me

Writerly tactics

So this is the point I get to potentially be preachy. This is the Workshop Facilitator person coming out in me – sorreee 😉

  • Give another point of view – When you’re writing in a colloquial way it’s sometimes okay to give other points of view as well especially if they add dimension to your story. “I could see she was looking at me and thinking I was a complete idiot because ….” Or “By the look on his face I knew it was all over,” etc.
  • Don’t waffle – Grab your readers by the throat in the first sentence and make them want to read on. “Last Thursday I kissed a corpse!” WHAT!! I want to find out why.
  • Take your readers on a journey – All good stories have a beginning, middle and an end, with lots of “And then, and then, and then” in the middle to keep the interest levels high.
  • Keep to the point – Your post should have a point, or a theme, or a moral. Decide what it is, and stick to it – don’t ramble off at tangents.

If you had to recommend a favourite Blog to a friend, which one would it be and why?

Comments

  1. Hi Johanna!

    Hey! A little bird told me it’s your birthday so happy birthday! I hope you have a lovely celebratory day 🙂

    So honored that you posted this on your big day too and thank you for recommending Get In the Hot Spot. I really appreciate that.

    I love reading personal stories and memoirs – nothing is more interesting than other people’s stories. They create a real connection and help us learn so much about ourselves and other people.

    I agree it’s always important to try to be real and really share without over-sharing. What amazes me is that the blog posts where you hesitate to push publish because you’re worried that you’re telling too much are generally the ones that get the biggest reactions with readers often thanking you for being honest and sharing your experiences.

    Storytelling and blogging helps us feel less lonely and the personal stories create a real connection and bonds like the one we’ve formed.

    So of course I’d count you as one of my favourite bloggers because you have the courage to get personal along with Seana Smith, another Aussie blogger. Other blogs I read for the personal stories are Sarah Wilson and Penelope Trunk.

    • Thank you Annabel – that little bird has been busy 😉 I’m writing to deadline today, but this evening plan for a little celebration. Thanks for your lovely comments and insights, about which I totally agree. And thank you for introducing us to some of your favourite personal bloggers too 🙂

  2. I am so honoured to be included in your list, with such greats as Styling You and Woogs World! There are a couple of new blogs here for me to check out too which is a bonus x

  3. I know you’ve told me all these points before, Jo. Great to be reminded. All your wonderful teaching reminds me that it is time for me to get back to my poor neglected blog!

  4. Jo thanks so much for listing me in your top ten bloggers. I am exceptionally humbled. It is difficult sometimes knowing what to reveal about your personal life in a blog. I think you have to walk a fine line between a little discreet yet being open about your life. Not at all easy at times. I remember in my early days of blogging several friends and my kids took offence to some of the things I wrote about in my blog. It taught me a lesson and now I try not to be too personal. I think all of your advice is extremely helpful and shows that you know your stuff. 🙂

  5. Thank you so much Jo for including me, my blog has had a change I can be found at raehilhorst.com
    You have given me some more bloggers to delve into, thanks heaps
    Rae xxx

    • Enjoy the new blogs and bloggers Rae. Thanks for notifying me of the change, I see the link still goes through to your blog but the title has changed.

  6. Great tips Jo & thanks for including me in your blog roll. I don’t know how I missed this post before. I went to a writing workshop at Summer School today and some of these points were raised at the workshop. Always great to have reminders. Thanks.

Look forward to hearing your thoughts!