For me as a middle aged woman there is nothing worse than buying a swimsuit. The double wammy of trying to find the best swimsuits for older women and selecting something that fits really well is not easy. When I find a great swimwear style thought I tend to stick with it.
The Best Swimsuits for older women
The best bathing suit for a middle aged women might include:
- Darker colours for slimmer appearance
- Not too high cut on the leg
- Tummy control panels
- Wide shoulder straps
- Long sleeves or cap sleeves
As you get older the urge to show off lots of flesh decreases. But that doesn’t mean to say that we shouldn’t show any flesh. Older women in bikinis, that’s okay as long as you’re confident stepping out in one, and why shouldn’t you? I’d say, go for a striking red bikini and be bold!
However, an older woman in a swimsuit can look very elegant, and you might just feel more comfortable wearing something that holds you in, and plumps you up, in all the right places.
From our research the best swimsuits to flatter a mature body are as follows:-
Colour
- A darker colour will always look good because it will have a slimming effect.
- Go for tropical prints on a dark background.
- Blues are always attractive.
- Want to stand out – then red is your BFF!
Shape
- Stay away from swimwear that is cut ultra high on the leg
- Skirt styled swimwear can look great if you pick the skirt right.
- Look for swimsuits with tummy control panels.
- Disguise a curvy tummy with swimsuits that have ruffles around the belly or offer a tiered effect.
- Don’t buy a swimsuit with spaghetti shoulder straps that cut into your flesh – especially around your back.
- Do go for a wider shoulder strap.
- If you’re going to be in the sun for long lengths of time consider a swimsuit that has long sleeves.
Tips for Buying a Swimsuit
How things have changed! How many of you remember styles like these? I certainly do. They were much more modest and less revealing than swimsuits are today, but I’m not sure they were more flattering.
These days the best swimsuits for older women are probably going to be more modest than those you might find in the pages of a fashion magazine aimed at 20 somethings.
I’m not saying you have to cover up, but you might find that you’re not quite as taught and toned as you used to be, so in order not to let all your best bits head south to the Bermuda Triangle there are a few things to consider.
Be realistic about your body shape
Love the body you’re in! It’s wonderful. Don’t worry about your shape. None of us has a perfect body shape, which means we are sometimes super critical which means that shopping for a swimsuit is the most confronting clothes shopping youโre likely to do.
If you have a large bust make sure you buy a swimsuit that will support your boobs. If you have a large tummy, consider a suit with tummy control. Donโt oggle all the teensy weeny itty bitty polka dot bikinis with longing – just be realistic.
Leak Proof Swimwear
If you’re worried about small leaks – don’t stop that from putting on your swimwear and getting onto the beach. Opt for leak-proof swimwear such as the wonderful modern options at Modibodi.
For: Using while in and out of the water to hold light incontinence or periods and spotting or as extra protection on heavy days so you can still go for a dip!
Feels: Like a regular swimming costume, except you’re also comfy and dry on light leak days, leaving you confident to enjoy Summer again!
Impact: Fewer disposable liners and tampons going to landfill or into our oceans.
Check out more styles Here.
Be kind to yourself
Sure you want to look great in your swimwear, but if youโre not feeling comfortable then you wonโt be confident.
Perhaps a bikini isn’t for you?
Whatโs fashionable and featured in all the magazines may look good on paper and on skinny models but donโt let these style icons dictate whatโs right for you. Iโve opted for the skirt style swimwear when Iโm feeling low on confidence, or my bikini line is looking a little unkempt – that way I can step out in style and not have to worry.
Bingo – Confidence in spades!
Try on lots of styles
This goes without saying. Take your time. Donโt be in a hurry, and try on lots of styles.
- Create a short list and then be critical about how they look on you. Does the leg come up too hight or is it just right?
- Do the bar straps dig in and give you an unsightly flabby look at the back around the shoulders?
- Is there enough tummy control?
- Is there enough support in the bra top?
- What about the colour? Does it suit you and do you have a sarong at home which will match up?
Swimwear doโs and donโts
- A halter top can accentuate a large bust so be careful of the effect you want to create
- For all day comfort do choose swimwear that has strong shoulder straps (rather than spaghetti type straps) that wonโt dig into you
- Highlight your waist with a belt or a wrap tie
- Underwire lined tops can give your bust a bit of a boost
- Embrace separates – then you can go for a different sized top and bottom if necessary
- But if you do go for a tanki do make sure that the tankini top doesnโt ride up – so when you try it on, bend down, stretch up and see how it sits on you when you move around.
All in ones that are great for the sun
If you’re out in the sun a lot, then consider an all in one which is like a mini wetsuit. Having long sleeves, and a zip up front which covers your neckline, you are much more protected from the sun.
Pop on a big floppy hat, a big pair of sunnies, and wear a sarong if you’re walking around the beach or boat, and your sun protection is almost complete.
Why I dislike buying swimwear
So the general scenario goes like this …
Just before we go on holiday, off I trot to buy a swimsuit. Into the changing rooms I go feeling quite brave and optimistic with a handful of lovely cossies.
I’m especially tempted by designer swimwear.
Designer Swimwear
I like the idea of designer swimwear, and the lifestyle it conjure up! But it doesn’t really like me!
By the time I’ve dragged the first dainty swimsuit over my ample curves, I don’t want to go on a beach holiday so much after all. I’m beginning to realise that I haven’t chosen the best swimsuit for older women. but one for midgets.
This first swimsuit by now is sitting high, too high on my leg line, and I realise that I should have at least gone for a bikini wax before venturing out to try on swimming costumes.
For without putting too fine a point on it, there appears to be a hairy mammoth trying to escape from the leg hole area (which I admit is a little too tight) and as I turn around to get a glimpse of my rear end I recoil in horror as it appears half of my bum is squidged out the back.
The second swimsuit will be the one I selected because I loved the colour. It’s probably like a scene straight out of Bali Hai. How can I possibly go wrong with this one?
First of all I’ve neglected to acknowledge that it has thin straps, and no bra support. It looks dreadful on me. I sag in all the wrong places.
The next one I’ve selected because it’s got a skirt. It hides the hair farm very nicely. But Ohmigosh – I look like the little old lady that I really Do Not Want to turn into.
Having said all this, I do think we’re unnecessarily hard on ourselves as we get older. Getting out onto the sand or into the pool in public should be fun.
To be honest with you, nobody is really watching.
They’re all far too concerned about the impression they’re making themselves.
Knowing that we should just get it on, get out and flaunt it is not that helpful if you really are shy of your body in a swimsuit.
So be aware of a few rules, and get out and have some FUN!
I hope these few simple tips might help you choose a swimsuit which you feel fabulous in and which ultimately gives you confidence.
Get Swimsuit Ready
Before venturing to the shops to try on swimsuits, it’s probably best to shave or wax your legs and your bikini line. Yep get summer ready!
For me honestly, it makes me feel much better about myself. It’s just not kind to an ageing ego to see a hair farm sprouting out all over your body (unless of course that’s how you prefer to look – I’m not judging – we are all different.)
Find a swimwear brand you can rely on
Capriosca Swimwear began over 6 years ago with a focus on fashionable, curvy, plus size swimwear, and I’ve fallen in love with their styles.
I’m wearing a Capriosca Tahiti 3 Tier One Piece * and behind me is the cotton sarong in plum *.
Plus size girls were just not being catered for, and, a lack of quality options when it came to plus size swimwear with stylish, well fitting swimsuits was nearly impossible to find.
Capriosca have created a collection of affordable, quality, long wearing and beautiful swimwear for women with curves.
“We want you to look and feel confident and amazing when you hit the beach or pool wearing one of our swimsuits. Our designs are made with the highest quality fabrics and we carefully select our styles, coloursand prints to create our signature classic elegance and style. You will fall in love with our beautiful swimsuits, that is a guarantee!”
“Our unique annual collections include timeless, durable and practical styles in sizes 10 โ 30 and you can expect to see features such as chlorine resistant fabrics, power mesh tummy control, wider and adjustable straps and underwire for amazing bust support and designs that fit cup sizes up to an F. Itโs these extra details and quality that make Capriosca Swimwear stand out from the crowd.”
Capriosca Swimwear have a wide range of stylish designs with a swimsuit to suit every bodyshape and style. Available in both one and two piece styles which give you control over coverage and how much skin you want to show.
Capriosca Swimwear creates an innovative range of women’s plus size swimsuits that are available in sizes 10, 12, 14, 16, 18, 20, 22, 24, 26, 28, 30.
Sequins and Sand Resort and Plus-Size Swimwear
One of my favourite brands of the moment, Sequins and Sand kindly gifted me the swimsuit I’m wearing in below, and I didn’t have to go out in public to try it on at all ๐ Oh joy!
I think it’s the best swimsuit for older women. It’s a Capriosca * one piece long sleeved in graphic floral, with a zip front, and it fits me perfectly. I’m wearing a Size 12. I love the long length sleeves and high neck because I like to be #sunsmart these days. It also holds me in well in all the right places, and I feel great in it.
Sequins and Sand design and sell fabulous resort wear and plus-size swimwear of all descriptions. If you need a little support, or some FREE styling advice then pop over to the Sequins and Sand website for some help from the experts.
To Bikini or Not? Older Women in Bikinis.
By all means buy a bikini if you love them. Our bodies are instruments not ornaments and we should be proud of them whatever their shape. I’m all for bikini confidence if you can muster it. After 2 caesarean sections, and not keeping up with the prescribed tummy exercises, I’m afraid a bikini is just not for me.
Perhaps a bikini is for you? Check out these styles:
Best Bikinis for Older Women
This Retro Vintage Bikini with High Waisted Bottoms is a flattering style for older women due to the high waisted pants. I actually think I’d wear this bikini because I love retro bathing suits. Buy from this link if you are shopping in America or the UK.
Australian readers you might like this colourful Vintage Ruched High Waisted Bikini – Buy it on Prime in Australia here … Pin up Swimwear High Waisted Bikini.
Best Swimsuits for Older Women
I really like crossover swimskirts for their flattering shape for curvy mid life women.
And this is a sexy, slimming style if you’re looking for something to add a little va va voom to your Australian summer: Oblique Stripes One Piece Swimsuit
Tips for great swimwear style
Push up swimsuits, underwire swimsuits, tummy control swimwear, bathing suit dress we can have it all these days. There is no need to be shy. Follow these tips, look at some of the styles I’ve suggested, then get it on and strut your stuff! You are so worth it ๐
- V- necks can be slimming as the eye is drawn downwards to your cleavage.
- Go for tummy control swimwear.
- One of the best swimsuits I’ve ever owned was black with a little gold detail. It looked classy, made me look slimmer, and oh la la, I felt sexy.
- A full swimsuit with arms and a high neck is perfect if you want to spend long hours playing in the sun. Sunsmart is always sexy. Read this post: Sunsafety and Melanomas – What you need to know
- If you have a large bust, then go for a wider strap on the swimsuit. Leave those spaghetti straps to the less well endowed (or youngsters).
- Shirring or draping on a swimsuit can help disguise a fuller tummy.
- Although a swim dress with a skirt attached can be ageing, if it makes you feel more confident about getting out there to swim and play then by all means wear it. If you don’t like showing too much flesh around the top of your legs and bum then rather be on the look out for swim dresses which have more of an A-line shape to them as opposed to a swirly skirt. You might find swim dresses are more flattering.
- Tankinis can be tricky. The tops ride up and the bottoms can ride down – if you have a bit of a problem tummy area then Ahem, you might be showing off more of it than you bargained for. And also, just saying … support for the girls. Tankinis rarely have good lift and separate support.
- It’s better to spend money on a fabulous swimsuit rather than buying something cheap just because it’s in a sale. Hands up who’s done this and been disappointed? (ME!)
- The best swimwear fabric is pretty high-tech and will hold you in taking centimetres off the way you look. Plus the best high-tech fabrics are more likely to last the race and should keep their shape despite constant wearing, despite ocean battering and despite chlorine decay. But do check what you’re buying.
- As we get older we need good bra support.
- Underwire bathing suits are a good option for fuller breasted ladies because underwire swimsuits will give a good lift and support.
- You could also try push up swimsuits to give you great shape up top.
- If you don’t need good bra support you might need padding to give you better shape ‘up top’.
- We definitely need the best engineered swimwear when it comes to construction as we get older.
- Have fun choosing the colour. Are you a tropical bird and love bright colours? Go for it! Do you love the flowery look or the block colour look? It goes without saying that a black swimsuit is likely to be the most slimming of all, and with a little gold or silver detail you are going to look elegantly fabulous.
- Most of all spend a little thought and time finding a well-fitting costume and then as the folks at Sequins and Sand say – step out with #cossieconfidence!
- Finally, don’t forget a pretty sarong, a wide brimmed sun hat, your sunscreen and some comfy flip-flops and away you go ๐
BONUS TIP – Don’t forget to wear a hat! If you’re looking for the best hat to protect face from sun (you should be) read my post about the best sun protection hats.
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Nita bell
Looking for great older ladies tanking
Life Images by Jill
I usually choose something which is chlorine resistant so it won’t disintegrate if I go to a chlorine pool. I like the look of the Capriosca one piece peacock feather suit. I also love the little wrap skirts to hide some of that bum and top of thigh. It is a younger look than the skirt bathers. I too hate trying on bathers, but they do need to fit, so how can one really choose on-line? Though I see they have a return policy if you aren’t happy. But they do have some fabulous looking swim suits. Happy summer Jo. #CossieConfidence #SignedUp
Johanna
Hi Jill, I think online is always a bit of a gamble but if you know your size (and make sure it matches the sizing chart on the website) then as long as you like the look of the swimsuit you should be fine. And yes … returns policy … okay not ideal if you have to send it back, but at least it’s an option. They are lovely swimsuits and mine was true to size.
Jo Tracey
I love a tankini but they don’t work for me – the top rides up & the bottom down. I spend a lot of time in swimmers but recently went to buy some for lap swimming – my old fave black speedos are now cut way too low in the back and way to narrow everywhere else & everything hangs out! As an aside, my 76 year old mum still rocks a bikini & a bikini pose. #TeamLovinLife
Johanna
Hello Jo, I’m so glad your 76 year old Mum is still rocking #cossieconfidence. I also know what it’s like when you find a style you once relied on has completely changed. Bummer!
Sue from Sizzling Towards 60 & Beyond
Love the colours Jo. I think everyone no matter what age hates buying a swimsuit. Especially when you look in those dressing room mirrors!!!! You are looking very stylish and certainly Sizzling!
Sue from Sizzling Towards 60 & Beyond
Johanna
Thanks Sizzling Sue ๐ I know … dressing room mirrors. Surely we’d buy much more if only they were flattering rather than fattening?
Annabel Candy
I’d pick the Janie One Piece in Zingara by SunSoaked from the Sequin and Sands store. It’s stunning.
As for confidence tips, I’ve noticed beach lovers come in all shapes and sizes so we should all feel confident, no matter what shape we’re in, or how old we are. However, for those blah beach days, a beautiful sheer cover-up helps and somehow makes me look and feel glamorous. Here’s a bonus tip too: busy patterns always make you look smaller. It sounds counterintuitive but it’s true!
Thank you for organising this Jo and good luck to all.
#CossieConfidence #SignedUp
Johanna
Hi Annabel, that’s interesting about busy patterns ๐ I’ve never thought about it, but actually looking back on my various cossies over the years … it’s a fact! Good luck in the competition ๐
Carol
Forgot the hashtags #cossieconfidence #signedup to my original post. My tip- just be yourself and don’t worry about what others think. If you’re comfortable that’s should be all that matters.
Johanna
I agree Carol – we need to have more faith in ourselves every which way. Good luck in the competition!
Carol
Caprosia chlorine resistant suit in red, which is on sale, but I live in the U.S. and the size conversion and shipping – goodness gracious! Plus, if it doesn’t fit I don’t think free shipping would apply. Anyway, they are beautiful suits and I would love to try one.
Johanna
Glad you like them Carol!
Annabel Candy
I love that one too Carol! Too hard to choose ๐
Julia Turner
My tip for cozzie confidence for short ladies with a bit of a tummy and an average size bust is to go for a one piece with ruching over the stomach and a sweetheart neckline for a flattering look. The ruching hides the belly and the sweetheart neckline draws attention up and away from the stomach. I also like the small swim skirts or low cut leg one pieces with the ruching to help with both the hair issue and covering a flabby top of leg.:) I have tried tankinis, unsuccessfully before – I found, like you said Jo, that the top rode up and the bottom rode down. I find plain black a bit harsh for my pale skin, seems to drain the colour out of me, and think a colour or pattern is much more flattering for me. I would really love to win the Capriosca Black Retro Check one piece swimsuit because it ticks all those boxes! #CossieConfidence#SignedUp
Johanna
Ohh the Capriosca Black Retro Check one piece is gorgeous isn’t it Julia ๐ Good luck in the competition!
Shirley
Confidence for me is wearing a beautiful swim dress that suits my curvy figure and helps me feel like really enjoying life in the summer on the beach or at the pool, just living life and having fun. I love the styles of the Capriosca Swim dresses and the bright colours with the black on some of the costumes and would love love to own one. #CossieConfidence #SignedUp
Johanna
Hi Shirley, I hope you are having fun this summer. Good luck in the competition.
Kathy Marris
Cossie confidence for me is finding a style that suits your shape and not trying to squeeze yourself into a swimsuit that is either too young or too revealing. Over the years, because I have a short torso, a tummy and big boobs, I’ve found the tankini style is best for me. Most tankinis come in D cup size with under-wiring which is great for me and they skim over the tummy area to disguise the flab. The Capriosca Swimwear Underwire Tankini Top in Batik would be the perfect swimwear for me. I love batik print and the v neck on the top would be so flattering. #CossieConfidence #SignedUp
Johanna
Hi Kathy, I think batik print is gorgeous too. Good luck in the competition!
Seana Smith
What a fab competition, I had heard of Sequins and Sand but hadn’t been to their website before. I haven’t ever seen a one piece with long sleeves and am thrilled to, no need for a rashie any more. My fave is: SunSoaked Emma Long Sleeve One Piece in Bella Rosa. Very happy to be signed up now.
I have only worn Speedos for years and years…. and years and years and years….. time for a change, but I do need real cossies not show ones and these look as if they could join me in the ocean and come out looking as good as they went in.
#CossieConfidence #SignedUp
Johanna
Hello Seanna, glad this competition has enticed you over to the Sequins and Sand website for a looksie, and glad that you like what you see. I know … long sleeves ๐ ๐ #norashieneeded! Good luck in the competition!
Gale
Oooh – Jo the pictures of “real people” models is so refreshing! These cossies look great – I especially love the Capriosca long sleeve Zip Front one piece particularly when I read it has a “sturdy shelf bra” – just what my DD boobs have to have! The idea of being relatively covered up is so appealing too with my fair skin. # CossieConfidence #SignedUp
Johanna
Just what I thought too Gale – real women with real bodies, enjoying swimwear. #Marvellous Keeping relatively covered up when you have fair skin is definitely something we all need to pay heed too – especially now we know the damage UV can do to us.
Leanne Le Cras
Jo I love these bathers – you look spectacular in yours and I really like how the models have real bodies (some soft tummies make a nice change!) I thought I’d be first to jump in and put my had up to win because I’m seriously considering getting back into swimming laps at our local pool and need something that is chlorine resistant to stop them perishing. I’m long in the body so I actually like tankinis and I love the little boy bottoms (they reduce the “hair farming” required) so I’d choose the Capriosca Chlorine Resistant Tankini Top Black + the Capriosca Boyleg Pant | Black (in the hope I’d look like the model in the pic!) I’ve ticked off your conditions of entry and look forward to seeing who wins ๐ #CossieConfidence #SignedUp
Johanna
Hello Leanne, Thank you so much. Also great to hear that you’re thinking of getting back into swimming laps at the local pool. Oh the Capriosca Tankini you like looks gorgeous! Good luck in the competition!