For me there is nothing worse than buying a swimsuit. The double wammy of trying to find the best swimsuit for older women (yikes, that would be me) and selecting something that fits really well is not easy. When I find a great swimwear style thought I tend to stick with it.
So the general scenario goes like this: Just before we go on holiday, off I trot to buy a swimsuit. Into the changing rooms I go feeling quite brave and optimistic with a handful of lovely cossies.
By the time I’ve dragged the first dainty swimsuit over my ample curves, I don’t want to go on a beach holiday so much after all. I’m beginning to realise that I haven’t chosen the best swimsuit for older women. but one for midgets.
This first swimsuit by now is sitting high, too high on my leg line, and I realise that I should have at least gone for a bikini wax before venturing out to try on swimming costumes. For without putting too fine a point on it, there appears to be a hairy mammoth trying to escape from the leg hole area (which I admit is a little too tight) and as I turn around to get a glimpse of my rear end I recoil in horror as it appears half of my bum is squidged out the back.
The second swimsuit will be the one I selected because I loved the colour. It’s probably like a scene straight out of Bali Hai. How can I possibly go wrong with this one?
First of all I’ve neglected to acknowledge that it has thin straps, and no bra support. It looks dreadful on me. I sag in all the wrong places.
The next one I’ve selected because it’s got a skirt. It hides the hair farm very nicely. But Ohmigosh – I look like the little old lady that I really Do Not Want to turn into.
Having said all this, I do think we’re unnecessarily hard on ourselves as we get older. Getting out onto the sand or into the pool in public should be fun. To be honest with you, nobody is really watching. They’re all far too concerned about the impression they’re making themselves.
Knowing that we should just get it on, get out and flaunt it is not that helpful if you really are shy of your body in a swimsuit.
So I hope these few simple tips might help you choose a swimsuit which you feel fabulous in and which ultimately gives you confidence.
Read on to the bottom of this post for a cool giveaway and be in with a chance to win a gorgeous Sequins and Sand swimsuit like the one below.
First things first.
Before venturing to the shops to try on swimsuits, it’s probably best to shave or wax your legs and your bikini line. For me honestly, it makes me feel much better about myself. It’s just not kind to an ageing ego to see a hair farm sprouting out all over your body (unless of course that’s how you prefer to look – I’m not judging – we are all different.)
Sequins and Sand Resort and Plus-Size Swimwear
If you don’t want to go shopping in person, then go online.
My favourite brand of the moment, Sequins and Sand kindly gifted me the swimsuit I’m wearing in this post, and I didn’t have to go out in public to try it on at all 🙂 Oh joy!
I think it’s the best swimsuit for older women. It’s a Capriosca one piece long sleeved in graphic floral, with a zip front, and it fits me perfectly. I’m wearing a Size 12. I love the long length sleeves and high neck because I like to be #sunsmart these days. It also holds me in well in all the right places, and I feel great in it.
Sequins and Sand design and sell fabulous resort wear and plus-size swimwear of all descriptions. If you need a little support, or some FREE styling advice then pop over to the Sequins and Sand website for some help from the experts.
Scroll down for a Giveaway to win a swimsuit valued up to AU$150
To Bikini or Not?
By all means buy a bikini if you love them. Our bodies are instruments not ornaments and we should be proud of them whatever their shape. I’m all for bikini confidence if you can muster it. After 2 caesarean sections, and not keeping up with the prescribed tummy exercises, I’m afraid a bikini is just not for me.
Tips for great swimwear style
- V- necks can be slimming as the eye is drawn downwards to your cleavage.
- One of the best swimsuits I’ve ever owned was black with a little gold detail. It looked classy, made me look slimmer, and oh la la, I felt sexy.
- A full swimsuit with arms and a high neck is perfect if you want to spend long hours playing in the sun. Sunsmart is always sexy. Read this post: Sunsafety and Melanomas – What you need to know
- If you have a large bust, then go for a wider strap on the swimsuit. Leave those spaghetti straps to the less well endowed (or youngsters).
- Shirring or draping on a swimsuit can help disguise a fuller tummy.
- Although a swimsuit with a skirt attached can be ageing, if it makes you feel more confident about getting out there to swim and play then by all means wear it. If you don’t like showing too much flesh around the top of your legs and bum then rather be on the look out for swim dresses, which have more of an A-line shape to them as opposed to a swirly skirt. You might find swim dresses are more flattering.
- Tankinis can be tricky. The tops ride up and the bottoms can ride down – if you have a bit of a problem tummy area then Ahem, you might be showing off more of it than you bargained for. And also, just saying … support for the girls. Tankinis rarely have good lift and separate support.
- It’s better to spend money on a fabulous swimsuit rather than buying something cheap just because it’s in a sale. Hands up who’s done this and been disappointed? (ME!)
- The best swimwear fabric is pretty high-tech and will hold you in taking centimetres off the way you look. Plus the best high-tech fabrics are more likely to last the race and should keep their shape despite constant wearing, despite ocean battering and despite chlorine decay. But do check what you’re buying.
- As we get older we need good bra support.
- If you don’t need good bra support you might need padding to give you better shape ‘up top’.
- We definitely need the best engineered swimwear when it comes to construction as we get older.
- Have fun choosing the colour. Are you a tropical bird and love bright colours? Go for it! Do you love the flowery look or the block colour look? It goes without saying that a black swimsuit is likely to be the most slimming of all, and with a little gold or silver detail you are going to look elegantly fabulous.
- Most of all spend a little thought and time finding a well-fitting costume and then as the folks at Sequins and Sand say – step out with #cossieconfidence!
- Finally, don’t forget a pretty sarong, a wide brimmed sun hat, your sunscreen and some comfy flip-flops and away you go 🙂
You ARE fabulous!
The kind folks at Sequins and Sand have offered a swimsuit to the value of AU$150 for one lucky Lifestyle Fifty reader.
Enter for a chance to Win a Sequins and Sand Swimming Costume
In order to be in with a chance to win a Sequins and Sand cossie up to the value of AU$150 please follow these few simple rules.
In the comments section below this post please share with us …
- Which Sequins and Sand costume you’d like to win (up to a value of AU$150).
- Sign up for the Sequins and Sand Newsletter. Sign up HERE. (All entrants who sign up will receive a Thank You email in which you’ll find a code for 10% discount on Sequins and Sand purchases).
- Share with us your top tips for holiday “Cossie Confidence” in the comments section below, and make sure to add the hashtags: #CossieConfidence #SignedUp to confirm you’ve signed up for the Sequins and Sand Newsletter.
- The closing date for this competition is Thursday 1st February 2018.
To win this giveaway you must follow the above rules and have read and comply with Lifestyle Fifty’s general Giveaway Entry Competition Conditions . The judges will select the winner based on the #CossieConfidence tips they consider most helpful for others.
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Update: 7th February 2018. This competition is now closed. The winner, Annabel, has been notified by email.