First up. I don’t believe that skinny is necessarily beautiful, nor do I believe large is ugly. How to dress to look slim and tall is a blog post packed with helpful tips for those of us who do, on occasion, want to dress to look slimmer than we really are.
I believe that every size is beautiful, just as long as we are fit and healthy we must totally own our curves.
I guess fashion dictates that slim and tall is beautiful. Itβs just commercialism, though we are old enough not to need to be part of this.
We have no good reason or need to look slimmer, but if wearing different styles can help you feel more confident because they give the illusion that you look slimmer, then I say – Go For It!
You might also like this previous post : How to Look Slimmer than you really are
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How to dress to look slimmer without dieting
Personally Iβm not going to go on a crazy diet to look slimmer (although I have crazily done so in the past – Hello cabbage soup diet), in fact these days I follow dietician Natalie Scotβs advice for the Non-Diet Approach.
I feel much healthier and more in control of my appetite and cravings, and it feels great to say, βI donβt diet!β following Natalie’s advice.
However, there are still certain times when Iβd like to look a little slimmer or taller, and so without resorting to dieting or trying to run a 1000kms a day, or go on a fast like a jockey,
Iβve very much researched ways to do this to find ways to look slimmer than I really am with very little effort on my physical part.
Old trusted favourites for looking slimmer than you really are such as wearing dark colours, vertical stripes, shapewear and the right shaped shoes all feature in this post, with many more tips still to come.
Remember that not all your clothes will make you look slimmer than you really are, and Iβm a great believer that you must wear all the clothes in your wardrobe – regardless.
Having said that, some clothes are going to do you big favours and make you look quite different, whereas other just arenβt. And thatβs okay too.
Read on β¦
What colours make you look slimmer
All dark colours are generally good for a slimming effect. Black is the obvious go-to colour for a slimming illusion.
But navy or midnight blue, purple and brown also help hide flaws and create a slimming illusion.
How to look slimmer in Jeans
- Dark jeans will make you look longer and slimmer.
- Pale wash jeans will not help slim large thighs.
- Pair dark jeans with a dark coloured shoe or ankle boot.
- Pair lighter jeans with a white or pastel sneaker.
- Ripped jeans should be the choice of the younger generation.

You might like this previous post all about jeans: Best Jeans for your body shape
When it comes to cut – high rise jeans will make you look slimmer. They went out of fashion but for women of a certain age they should never be out of your wardrobe.
High rise means a neater waistline, a belly that gets flattened under some nice tight denim and basically many fewer lumps and bumps will show – Iβm thinking of the low rise muffin top.
How to look slimmer in a dress
Generally speaking fitted dresses will do you more favours than kaftan styles or dresses which fall from a high waist.
I love Jersey Dresses with side ties and v-necks, especially those offering a little rouching across the tummy area.

I think a dress length just around the knee has a slimming effect.
If youβre tall then a fitted maxi dress will give a long lean illusion but …
Donβt wear big bulky flowing dresses
Letβs talk flowing dresses – long voluminous maxis in particular.
Truth be told, when you wear a big floppy dress, itβs not going to be flattering.

Sure it might be a gorgeous print and people will comment βwhat a lovely dressβ but it wonβt flatter your body or make you look slimmer.
The dress will hang loose, make you look larger than you really are, and this style is perfectly okay for the beach or a hot summer night.
If the dress is made of thin or delicate fabric then add a belt to create a more of an hour glass shape which will help make you look slimmer.
Fit and flare jeans and pants
When I was 12 years old I owned a midnight blue, velvet, pair of bell bottom trousers. How I loved them. Even then I knew that the style made me look taller and leaner.
These days itβs quite hard to find bell bottoms – but rest assured they will make you look taller.
If you want to give skinny jeans a rest then give bell bottoms a go. Theyβll instantly add inches to your overall look.
Shoes to make your legs look longer
Wearing a knee length dress? Then wear a pointed toe court shoe. It will add the illusion of longer length to your legs.
It doesnβt have to be a βlook-at-me-follow-meβ stiletto for a kitten heel or small wedge is fine. Just make sure the toe is pointed rather than square.
Match your shoe colour to your leg, and wear nude colour shoes, is a sure fire way to add more length.
How to dress to look slim and tall in block colours
The British Royals know that block colour works. Every time. Go for block colours when you can.
Prints are lovely and we all wear prints because they are just so pretty and alluring.
But if you want to look slimmer then wear a solid colour, especially below your waist.
Any block colour worn from head to toe is going to make you look slimmer, create an uninterrupted vertical line, and generally speaking the darker the colour the better.

Ultimately though donβt just stick to only black or navy because a classy beige or camel worn from head to toe looks stunning, and if you can wear white or ivory then go for that too!
Do V necks make you look slimmer?
Letβs talk necklines.
Crew necks which cut across your collar bone might be okay for T-Shirt days, but in reality they can make your boobs look bigger and your torso look wider.
A V neck is much more flattering and will draw the eye downwards, rather than outwards, thus making your overall shape look leaner.
Do stripes make you look slimmer?
I love stripes and have quite a few Breton type tops in my wardrobe; from the more flowey to fitted.
If you’re looking for answers when it comes to how to dress to look slim and tall though I’d avoid horizontal stripes.

Although Iβm certainly not averse to wearing horizontal stripes I do think that vertical stripes are the winner because they can give the illusion of length, and so give the illusion that you are longer and taller.
Vertical stripes in a pair of trousers (especially if they have a high waist) can create a lovely lean-look effect when worn with a tucked in blouse.
Can a jacket make me look slimmer?
A block coloured jacket with crisp straight lines, worn with a V Neck T-Shirt over dark jeans is a winning look when it comes to creating a slim overall outline.
To look slimmer, longer and taller itβs all about drawing the eye lengthwise.
Long statement necklaces, like a pendant necklace can be great for this. So too can mid chest bibs or glittery chandeliers that draw attention to your face and neck.
Why do you look slimmer with a tan?
Because it gives the illusion of a fit body and draws the eye away any skin blemishes like stretch marks, veins that stand out, brown spots and cellulite that distract the eye from clean longer lines of exposed arms or legs.
For instance, you can draw attention to your legs and make them appear leaner, by applying fake tan or bronzer, and then adding some shimmer lotion to the front of your shins.
I donβt subscribe to suntans or sunbed tans, but a little fake tan whether thatβs a salon spray tan or a do-it-yourself-kit each summer season doesnβt go amiss.
And donβt forget that all skin looks better from a moisturising lotion which helps project a head to toe glow.
Try the St Tropex self tanner.
Always wear underwear that fits
Most of us wear the wrong-size bra with cups that neither lift or shape, and bands which make us bulge around our shoulders. Find the right bra and you will immediately look slimmer.
Panties that fit too snuggly create bulges and visible panty lines can disrupt clean lines making you look heftier around the bum and hips.
Always buy panties that smooth things out around your derriere region, if you’re looking for ideas about how to dress to look slim and tall.
Can shapewear make you look slimmer?
Absolutely!
Buy shape wear with extra-firm tummy control for a much leaner looking silhouette.
Of course no girl should be without some SPANX in her wardrobe.

What material makes you look slimmer?
Go for cotton, silk, denim, jersey, cashmere and other flat, rather than bulky materials, that donβt add volume.
Try any fabric with a percentage of spandex in it can help make you look slimmer.
Bulkier materials, on the other hand, like corduroy, velvet, leather, angora, mohair and taffeta can have the opposite effect – but they still have a place in your wardrobe.
I hope that you’ve enjoyed some of these tips about how to dress to look slim and tall.

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Thanks for the great read Jo. I hate my long skinny legs and try not to wear black pants or black jeans because it definately makes your legs look skinny !!!
Glad you enjoyed the newsletter Chris π thanks for reading x Oh, you and your legs – they are just gorgeous and definitely covetable! I love your legs! π
There are so many tips that resonate with me Jo. My legs are quite slim so narrow jeans look good. My tummy on the other hand is probably wider than my hips so I wear a top that doesn’t cling but isn’t too baggy. It suits me best to have it finish just after my hips. With dresses I like straight through dresses in materials that holds it’s form, not see through and not clingy. Above the knee looks best on me. mid-length and long not so good lol.
I also like shift dresses Jan, although I actually don’t have one in my wardrobe at the moment. I used to have a very serviceable oat coloured shift dress, but I think it got discarded during a move. Thanks for the reminder to look out for another one. Yes, dress cut just above the knee is more flattering on a lot of women of medium stature I think. Thanks for popping by π
This post also caught my eye because I’m always trying to look taller and slimmer at a curvy 5’1″ . I used to wear really high heels to boost my height but I can’t do that anymore because my poor feet suffer and I almost become crippled. These days I resort to skinny jeans and a loose fitting top to hide the big boobs and fat tummy. I do find that dresses tend to flatter me the most and look for more fitted styles rather than tent dresses. My biggest problem now is that my boobs keep growing! I’m having trouble getting things to fit around my huge melons and it’s so frustrating. I wish I could stick a pin in them and they would deflate just a little!
Hi Kathy, yes that’s pretty much my go-to uniform too. Skinny jeans, cut-off capri pants or ponte pants all with a pretty but loose fitting top. I hear you about boobs that keep growing. Dave is delighted (OHHHH!) and I am exasperated. A pin would be good. There’s also a lot of a not-so-good-droop going on around my shoulders and underarms that seems to add to the problem of a heftier than wanted upper area. Oh the joys of toned skin heading south, never to be seen again, probably to the Bermuda triangle!
Ok, you had me at the title! I sometimes feel as though I look like a lead weight has been rested on my head making me shorter and pushing my boobs out one way & my bum the other lol. Some great tips from one who always looks gorgeous.
Hi Jo, Lol! Your comment made me smile – and I also relate! Thanks for your perfectly lovely comment – in real life though I’m short and squat and have to pull out all the tricks in the book to look slimmer and taller!
Love your tips Jo .. itβs all about instilling confidence as you walk out the door feeling great !
Thanks Jenny, you are so right …. it is absolutely about being able to walk out the door feeling confident and ready to face the world.
You looked beautiful in everything you wore, including the big print dress. I need help with my wardrobe.
Thank you Terry Ann, what specific problems do you have with your wardrobe? Maybe we can help?
I’m already tall and don’t want to dress to look any taller thankyou (LOL) but I’m always open to ways to dress to look slimmer! I’m a fan of dark pants and slim fit clothes – I try to keep the volume down (esp around the hips and tummy) and also stay away from things that pull in at the waist but emphasise the little bit of a tummy pooch that most of us carry.
Ultimately a trim body is the best start to looking slimmer and then buying what works rather than what the magazines tell is is fashionable for this exact moment. Class never goes out of style. π
Hello lovely long person Leanne! Oh I wish I was tall like you! Thank you for the additional tips – you are so right. And yup, classy dressing never goes out of style.