Post Updated: 14 September 2021, 31 Dec 2020. Post first published 27 Feb 2019.
How to Dress Younger
I think we all want to keep up with the times as we get older, and to do this it’s important to keep a check on your wardrobe for outdated garments and clothes that date you.
This post will look at simple ways you can look younger, dress younger and in doing so simply shave years off your age (although we don’t advocate copying your teenage daughters).
I recently overheard someone say, “I just want to dress younger. I don’t want to look old, because I don’t feel old.” And that got me thinking about how to look younger than your age without any chemical or cosmetic intervention, other than a little bit of thought.
Of course dressing younger, isn’t about dressing younger at all!
Essentially it’s about dressing with more style and feeling super confident. Pay attention to the Ultimate Guide to Fifty Plus Women’s Fashion and check out this post for the ultimate sensual, intimate confidence when it comes to underwear.
If you want to continue to look on point as you age, then don’t go for high fashion pieces designed for the 20 somethings, find current styles that suit you, and only you, and follow these 13 simple tips.
Look Younger – Dress Younger – 13 Things You Must Do
- Fleecey Jackets have to go, or just wear them for walking the dog.
- For daywear replace your old fleeceys with statement knits and fashionable chunky cardigans.
- Wear the jeans – they shout ‘youth’ and ‘energy’.
- Buy some trendy exercise gear, and get active.
- Wear statement sunglasses in warmer weather.
- Buy an on trend leather tote bag.
- Shift dresses always shout ‘youthful’.
- Wrap dresses will give you a younger looking silhouette.
- Block colours are stand-out and scream ‘sassy confidence.’
- If you choose a print, make sure it’s a classy print that oozes va-va-voom.
- Bangs, or a feathered fringe, will hide frown lines and forehead wrinkles.
- A shortish feathered hair cut, or a jawline bob cut that gently disguises your chin, will both help you look younger than you really are.
- Smile! A beaming smile takes years off your age.
I’m not going to suggest cosmetic surgery or botox because right now I don’t believe in them. I believe in ageing gracefully, and owning our lines and wrinkels as stories of our passage through life.
I don’t agree with anything about trying to look younger just for the sake of looking younger – but I do agree with looking great and looking forever young in an ageless way. It has to do with confidence, knowing what suits you, and finding current trends and styles that will make you feel great.
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Having said that, I think that a lot of women over 50 want to look the best they can, regardless. And many of us want to be trendy dressers, not mutton dressed as lamb dressers, but dressing well to look and feel confident, and yes maybe dress younger than our age (or what is perceived as ‘our age’)
I understood what that lovely lady was saying the other day. I really did. It’s so easy to just throw on whatever comfy old clothes you wore yesterday (and probably the day before! Guilty as charged) and feel sort of just Ho-Hum, when with a little pre-planning you can put a look together which you feel great in everyday, and which makes you feel youthful.
Certain clothes will date you – things like fleecey jackets. Unless you’re walking the dog or hiking on a remote mountain replace your old fleeces with statement knits and fashionable chunky cardigans.
Your body is changing and you may have bingo arms, tuck shop arms, call them what you will, most of us after the age of 50 have flabby upper arms. To get the most out of your sleeveless garments do think about adding slip on sleeves for under dresses and tops – you’ll find some great ideas in the post about where to buy fashionable arm cover ups.
Looking and feeling confident will help you look younger too. There’s no longer need to worry about those, “eek was that a leak” moments either. Ditch the non-eco friendly pantyliners and opt for the best washable incontinence underwear like my favourites from Modibodi.
Be a Jean Genius
I’m a big fan of jeans. Blue jeans, black jeans, white jeans. They are versatile and can be dressed up or down. Plus they scream “Youth!” and “Energy!”
For something a little bit different wear a pair of cut off jeans with embellishment at the calf, choose a signature pair of shoes or ankle boots, and pop on a slinky blouse and you’re good to go.
Jeans can take a decade off your look if you get the right fit. Yes you should probably avoid the super skinny, ripped, beach bleached styles, but then again if you’ve got great legs why not wear them?
The best thing to wear with ripped jeans would be a super-classy blouse and long line linen jacket to balance the look.
Yep, drop a decade and buy the jeans!
For all you need to know about jeans, and how to get the best fit for your body shape, you might like to read this post: Best Jeans for Women over 50 It’s got loads of tips and advice.
Take a decade off your look by being active and keeping flexible.
Yes, I know as we age it takes longer to do these things and our joints may begin to stiffen.
All the more reason to join a gym, go to a Pilates class, swim, walk on the beach or dance – do what you love and make it a daily habit.
You’ll feel great for doing more exercise, and activewear is all the rage whether you’re at the gym, going for a walk, or just out and about.
Don’t sit around in your pyjamas, nor your fancy clothes at home. Buy some comfy exercise gear and wear it during the day – then when time permits or the exercise urge strikes, you’re ready to go 🙂
Book an active weekend away somewhere nice and have some fun – here’s my best packing list for a weekend or 3 day trip away.
How to dress younger
A statement pair of modern sunnies and a luxe leather bag might be all you need to dress younger. Wearing new season styles will also help shed years off your appearance.
This season I’ve loved wearing this dotty top from Vivid International. It has a relaxed fit, with a lovely front-to-back scoop that falls well below the bum at the rear.
Dress to Impress
A simple, block colour dress is always a winner. Shift dresses are favourites after 50, so too wrap dresses.
Anything that nips you in at the waist (if you have one) is wonderful, but if like me, you sometimes just don’t want any of that nipping then go for something a little unusual.
This Vivid bubble dress by Vivid International is just the ticket if you want to make a statement. Wear it with long boots in winter and court shoes in fall or summer.
Why not add a scarf to the bubble dress in a contrasting colour, as I’ve done in the image below.
Fringe benefits and hair length
Fringes can hide forehead wrinkles and frown lines. You don’t need solid bangs, but a feathered fringe can take years off your face.
A very short pixie cut may suit you, but it can show off your double chins. A little length with some layers cut in can soften your features and take the emphasis off any drooping jowels.
Smile, be cheery, be happy – for sure it takes years off your face whatever your hair cut.
A statement knit
Dare to be different. For colder days a statement knit, that’s a little different but easy to wear is a great staple for your wardrobe.
The knit below has a flattering, slightly scooped neck and enough detail in the geometric pattern to be interesting without overpowering. Plus for winter days it’s a nice length with jeans or ponte pants.
Have Fun Dress Younger and Feel Great – This Much is Really True
Age is just a number, so thay say, and as long as we are feeling fit and healthy I really believe that numbers don’t matter.
What matters is our attitude to life and living and having the energy to get up, get dressed and face the day in a positive way as we get older.
Within that though is the way we look. Sure it’s okay to look daggy if you’re feeling grotty or ill. But at other times we need to make an effort.
The thing is when we were twenty or thirty or even forty, we could probably just get up, run a brush through our hair, pinch our cheeks, put on a bit of lip blusher, throw on a t-shirt and jeans, and look great all day.
When you get to being over 50, things change a bit.
Everything takes a little more effort. A little bit of energy and motivation gets taken away as each year passes. And so does the desire to look good.
If you want to look fit, youthful and vibrant – then the first thing to look after is YOU. Look after yourself first.
Have a health check up with your doctor, book in with your dentist and make sure your teeth are in good shape, enjoy a little pampering and book yourself a manicure and a pedicure (even if you don’t get colour on your nails) and get a good hair cut (and colour, if that’s your thing).
Drink plenty of water – look younger by staying hydrated and healthy. It’s important to look after your skin in order to look young fresh and beautiful !
Eat a balanced diet full of natural vitamins, you’ll end up looking younger by eating natural food that’s good for you rather than tucking into fast foods and junk food! You need to maintain energy as you age, so do eat the proper balance of fruit, vegetables and whole grains .
If there’s one thing that ages us all – it’s smoking. The look; sallow skin, fine lines around your moth, yellowed teeth, bad nails… Well for goodness sake give up now!
I know I sound like your mother, but seriously stop. It’ll be so worth it in the long run.
Once you’re lifestyle is looking in good shape , then it’s time to look at what you choose to wear.
10 Dress Younger Life Hacks for Older Women
1. Put away the black – my Grandmother’s sage words of advice were: “Black is only for funerals.” Obviously things have changed since her fashion heyday in the 1940s but it’s a little bit true that black can age you and drain your face of colour. You can look younger than your age by wearing colors that flatter your complexion, eyes and hair colour.
Having said that, if you have blond hair then black can look great, but if you are brunette then look out for plum shades, or even a bright cerise.
Grayish/plum shades can also look grand with blue eyes, while girls with green or brown eyes often look good in plum-browns or berry tones.
2. Get fashionable! Look younger than your years by staying informed about popular fashion trends. You don’t have to be a slave to fashion but I think it’s, a) fun and b)thought provoking to keep up with what’s happening on the fashion scene.
You will feel fabulous when someone pays you a compliment about the way you dress, which is unlikely to happen if you are stuck in a prim and proper old lady look deigned suitable by the old school!
So do check the fashion magazines and keep an eye on what’s hot and what’s not – are high waist jeans back in fashion? What are the current colour trends? Is there a style that is breaking news?
You don’t have to be a slave to fashion, but you can pick up a magazine or two throughout the year either at the newsagent or how about borrowing from the library?
3. Whatever you do – Wear clothes that you love, that suit YOU, that flatter your body shap, and that you feel comfy in. You can still dress younger but also feel comfortable.
There’s no need to squeeze into skinny jeans just because they’re all over the fashion magazines. Trust me, you’ll never wear them – I have about 6 pairs of skinny jeans that look great on my legs but which won’t do up around the waist anymore. They definitely need to go!
4. Act your age – don’t act young to look young. Grace should go hand in hand with maturity, and dressing with style equates to feeling good in what you wear, not envying your daughter’s style of dress.
5. Don’t listen to the fashion Police – its all about creating confidence for yourself and how you feel about your clothes. Dressing to look youthful and more fabulous means not caring about what anyone else thinks.
6. Do wear active wear, but for exercise reasons, probably not for going out to lunch.
On that note it’s important after 50 to get plenty of exercise – look younger by staying active.
You’ll find your clothes fit better, and they always somehow just seem to look better on people who are following a healthy lifestyle and are active.
If you’re physically and mentally healthy you’ll just feel more confident about yourself and your body, and you’ll find that you want to dress well all the time.
7. Go shopping with girlfriends who love clothes! There are some of us who love shopping for clothes, some people who just can’t be bothered, and others who find clothes shopping a chore that has to be completed.
Go shopping with girlfriends or family that you can have a laugh with, enjoy their company, and who you can rely to tell you if a garment looks awful on you or if it makes you look fabulous!
10. Get rid of old clothes, look youthful by throwing away anything that isn’t age appropriate or makes you look old.
Frilly blouses with bows at the neck for instace, so reminiescent of the 80’s and glam punk rock, should probably only be worn for fancy dress!
Keep yourself looking stylish day after day with simple swaps like chucking out an old, frayed garment and buying something up to date and gorgeous to wear in its place.
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